A home that is raising cats and dogs together is always interesting to visit because of the sheer amount of personality it brings out. Mark Twain once said, “If animals could talk, the dog would be a blundering outspoken fellow; but the cat would have the rare grace of never saying a word too much.” This is surely the general perception about canines and felines, but may not always be true. Raising a cat and a dog together is not rocket science, but it’s definitely an art. This article not only provides insight on how to introduce a dog and a cat but also acts as a guide on achieving peaceful coexistence between the two.
Can cats and dogs get along?
The short answer to this question is Yes. However, there are a multitude of factors at play here. The success of their relationship depends on the animals’ individual personalities and the environment they are raised in.
The chances of a cat and a dog coexisting peacefully, in the long run, are higher if they are introduced early on. Some cats are more social than others and may be more accepting of other animals in the house. However, several cats may be territorial and may show some resistance.
Similarly, some dogs may be accepting and friendly towards cats from the beginning, some may take time whereas some may never get around to sharing their space with another cat.
Before introducing another pet into the household, it is crucial to thoroughly understand your existing pet’s preferences and personality along with that of the new one. If your pets show any kind of resistance, be prepared to invest some amount of time and energy in working with them.
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How long does it take for a cat to get used to a dog?
Your cat and your dog’s personalities and ability to adapt are the two most important deciding factors in the time taken for them to get along with each other. It could take anywhere between a couple of weeks to a few months for a cat to fully accept a new dog. Your cat will give you a clear indication of their comfort level towards the dog.
Here are some factors that influence the time taken for a cat to get used to a dog –
- The cat’s previous experience with dogs
- Age of the cat – if the cat has lived most of its life as a single pet, it may take some time for them to come around
- The dog’s behavior – this can be a major deciding factor. If the dog has a strong prey drive and chasing instinct and keeps wanting to go after the cat every now and then, the time taken for the cat to get used to the dog will only multiply
- The way they are introduced – it is important for you to know how to introduce a dog and a cat before deciding to raise two together. If the interaction is flawed and one of them ends up having a negative experience, it may have leave long term scars and adversely affect their relationship
- Availability of a safe space – Being around another animal for extended periods can be overwhelming for cats. It is crucial for them to have a safe space to call their own where the dog cannot follow them. This gives them time to unwind, rest, and fall back on every time they feel stressed.
- Consistent routine – In the ever-changing world around them, a routine is the only thing that provides them with some kind of comfort and sense of security. The addition of a dog in the household is a major change for your cat. Make sure to keep their routine rock-solid despite the many ups and downs that may happen in the process.
Dog behaviors that can make cats uncomfortable
Cat people would be the best ones to answer this question!
Knowing your cat in and out is essential to predict what kind of dog behaviors would make them uncomfortable. This would help you make an informed decision before getting a dog. Eg, if you have a cat that is easily scared of loud noises and sudden movements, you’d want to stay away from excessively vocal dogs and dogs that have a strong prey drive. Here are some other dog behaviors that a cat may find annoying and stressful –
- Strong chasing instincts
- Aggression
- Reactivity
- Territorial behavior
- Excessive barking or growling
- Excessive playfulness
- Boisterous energy
- Invading personal space
- Dogs unable to respect boundaries
- Predatory behavior
- Dogs unable to recognize and respond to social cues
Cat behaviors that can make dogs uncomfortable
Calling out all the dog people to answer this question!
A classic rookie mistake that dog owners make is to disregard signs of discomfort that their dogs might be trying to communicate, especially in the presence of other animals. Often, we let the animals figure it out until we start seeing signs of aggression. Do not make this mistake with your cat and your dog. Closely monitor their interaction and separate them before they get too overwhelmed. Here are some cat behaviors that might make your dog uncomfortable –
- Running around too much around the dog
- Approaching when the dog is eating
- Approaching when the dog is engaged with a valuable resource
- Staring
- Hissing
- Clawing
- Encroaching the dog’s territory, like laying on their bed or entering their crate
- Arching back and hairs raised
- Territorial marking
- Stealthy approaches and sneak attacks
- Excessive vocalization
- Sudden movements
While most of the behaviors mentioned may be natural cat behaviors, if you see your dog expressing discomfort or stress, make sure to create distance and provide your dog with a safe space.
How do you let a dog and cat meet for the first time? 4 methods of introduction
The steps you take while introducing your dog and cat are important in building a strong foundation for peaceful coexistence. There 4 possible methods on how to introduce a dog and a cat –
1. Introduce them in a neutral environment
The biggest advantage a neutral environment brings is the absence of the pet’s resources and territory. Thus, neither the dog nor the cat feels the need to protect their home or assert their dominance. A neutral environment sparks curiosity in animals and encourages them to explore and interact with their environment more positively.
A neutral space provides both pets with an equal footing and builds a foundation for positive interactions by taking away potential reasons for escalations. It allows both pets to investigate without feeling threatened.
Method: Have your cat and your dog on a leash in a fenced-in yard. Allow them to see each other from a distance and notice their body language closely. Let the dog and the cat decide the pace at which they want to get close and investigate further.
Watch out for signs of discomfort in both pets. If they show curiosity towards each other, it is a positive sign and a safe go-ahead for the interaction to continue a little longer.
If either one of them shows discomfort and signs of stress, do not let them get closer and give them some more time to get desensitized towards each other’s presence. It is possible that both pets may not come around to accepting each other on day 1. But, if you see even an ounce of progress in the first interaction, end it on a positive note and continue the next day.
2. Introduce them at home, through a barrier
Introducing a dog and a cat at home carries the potential risk of territorial behavior being exhibited by either one or both pets. This may result in an unpleasant first introduction and a weaker foundation for their long-term relationship, especially if they come at each other head-on. A barrier helps in creating a more controlled scenario for first-time interactions as it prevents head-on meets.
Method: Select a barrier depending on the level of territorial behavior of your dog or cat. A baby gate should be a good starting point. However, if your pets are likely to show aggression, use a stronger barrier like a door that will allow only the exchange of scents and the chance to see slight movements on the other side. You can take a call on how long to keep using the barrier for their interactions based on their first interaction.
If your cat exhibits territorial behavior such as swatting, hissing, and loud vocalization, give it a few more days. Similarly, if your dog displays discomfort at the sight of your cat through clear body language signs such as fearfulness, growling, excessive barking, hackles raised, etc, allow them a few more days of barrier interactions to get comfortable in each other’s presence before eliminating the barrier.
3. Introduce them face to face
Face-to-face introductions are a good idea only when both animals are capable of being civil towards one another. There can be room for mild signs of discomfort, however, if even one of the pets is capable of hurting the other, it is better to introduce them through a barrier or in a neutral space. Using a leash is highly recommended as things may escalate at any point when it comes to first-time animal interactions.
Method: Have your dog and your cat on a leash and a comfortable harness. Keep them at a distance of 6-10 feet and let them be the ones to decide the pace at which they approach each other. Do not rush into it. Have good control over the leash, but make sure to hold it slack, especially when they are close to each other.
A tight leash may make your pets feel trapped and cornered and may aggravate them at the slightest discomfort. A slack leash gives them more room to back off if they feel the need to. Have plenty of treats ready and reward every positive behavior during the interaction.
4. Introduce just the scents first
Scent is a crucial aspect of animal introductions. In a neutral environment, both pets can encounter each other’s scent without feeling threatened. This helps them become familiar with each other’s presence before direct contact.
Method: Pick up something that both your pets have engaged with continuously for a few days, eg, their beds or mattresses on which they’ve been sleeping. Introduce it in the other animal’s territory and allow them to engage and explore. As your pets gradually open up towards the “foreign” object and show no signs of discomfort, keep rewarding them. Reward them more when they are actively engaging with it.
Once your cat/dog seems comfortable around the other animal’s resource, consider introducing them through a barrier or in a neutral zone.
7 tips to help your dog and your cat get along
Living with cats and dogs together can not only be very rewarding but also a super entertaining experience. One thing you’d never fall short of is stories! Raising a cat and a dog together can be a lot of fun if you get a few things right between them from day 1. Here are 7 tips on not only how to introduce a cat and a dog, but also help them get along –
1. Don’t force friendship
When raising a cat and a dog together, it is natural to want them to be as close as Henry the Colorado dog and Baloo the cat (you have to google if you don’t know them!). But not all friendships turn out this way.
Some cats and dogs prefer to be apathetic roommates to each other rather than best friends. That doesn’t mean they’re missing out on anything in life. In fact, It is better for peaceful coexistence in the long run. Never force your cat and your dog to be friends with each other. Leave them be and respect their choices.
2. Take time to desensitize them towards one another
If your cat and/ or your dog have an existing negative response towards the sight of the other pet, they are in dire need of desensitization. The goal of desensitization is to gradually expose both pets to each other in a controlled and positive way, allowing them to build tolerance and reduce fear or anxiety associated with each other.
Regular, short training sessions with loads of positive reinforcement are often more effective than infrequent, long sessions. Introduce your cat and your dog in a controlled and gradual manner, starting at a distance or intensity below their threshold and work your way up.
3. Make sure to keep certain areas exclusive to individual pets
Having a space to call their own is crucial for every pet in a multi-pet household. Animals, like humans, can experience stress, especially when surrounded by other animals all day. Providing individual space allows each pet to have a safe haven where they can relax and unwind away from other pets. This is particularly important in situations where there may be inter-pet tension or hierarchy struggles.
A crate or a playpen becomes all the more important for dogs when raised with cats. Cats could be provided with a tower or a higher altitude space where the dog cannot follow. Alternatively, a barrier like a baby gate would also work well to separate the two pets temporarily.
4. Make sure they do not have to share resources
Sharing is not caring when it comes to dogs. Sharing is the fastest way to resource guarding in dogs and territorial behavior in cats. Having separate spaces for eating, resting, and playing can help minimize conflicts over resources and reduce the likelihood of aggression between pets.
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5. Teach your pets to respect each other’s boundaries
Pets have individual preferences and personalities. It may be difficult for a young pup to gauge and determine when a cat is stressed. Similarly, a cat may miss out on subtle signs of stress and discomfort from dogs. Intervention and close supervision during this point is crucial as things may escalate in no time.
Dogs and cats generally learn to respect each other’s boundaries and communicate effectively over time. But in the initial phase of introduction and co-existence, a little help wouldn’t hurt.
Pro tip – consider keeping your dog on a leash for most of the day when they are active and moving around the house. Having a leash gives better control, especially during day-to-day interactions, play, and stressful moments between the pets.
6. Teach your dog to be calm around your cat
Pets that can stay calm together, can get through chaos together. It is incredible if your dog and cat play nicely with each other while having funny and endearing moments all day long. However, your dog must have the ability to stay calm around your cat on cue. This is especially important if you have a larger breed or a high-energy pup with a strong prey drive.
Constant boisterousness and hyperactivity can be exhausting to deal with not only for the cat but also for the pet parents. Furthermore, an anxious or apprehensive cat would be a lot more comfortable in approaching and interacting with your pup if they are calm and not trying to constantly chase them down. This would eventually promote a better canine-feline bond.
Make sure to let your cat hang around your dog when your dog is sleepy and in a naturally calm state of mind. Also, when your cat is in a playful mood and wants to run around the house, she should have the liberty to do so without the fear of a dog waiting to chase her down. Have your dog on a leash and proactively teach him to stay calm while letting your cat burn off some excess energy.
7. Monitor them super closely for a few weeks
You would be able to figure out the majority of the things between your dog and your cat such as their preferences, stressors, reactions, behaviors etc, if you just watch them like a hawk. Body language never lies. Monitor your pets’ behaviors towards one another very closely for the first couple of weeks. Some signs of comfort between your pets include –
- being able to eat in peace
- being able to relieve themselves in the presence of each other
- Turning their back towards one another
- Ability to sleep in the same room or close to each other
- Ability to play and calm down without intervention
- No signs of aggression around each other
- Indifference towards each other
Body language signs that indicate your pets may be stressed or uncomfortable
There is nothing more honest and transparent than an animal’s body language. Body language cues are the only way they communicate with us and other animals. It is imperative that we do not disregard these cues. Here are some obvious signs of stress communicated by dogs and cats when in distress –
Signs of stress in dogs
Below mentioned are some common signs of stress in dogs. The exhibition of these behaviors may be at different intensities depending on how stressed or anxious the dog is. Look out for subtle signs of stress and be ready to separate your pets at the smallest sign of escalation.
- Tense or stiff body language
- Restlessness
- Pacing
- Excessive vocalization in the form of whining and barking
- Drooling
- Yawning frequently
- Lip licking
- Hackles raised
- Whales of eyes exposed
- Avoidance, hiding, backing off, turning or running away
- Dilated pupils
- Growling
- Increased aggression
- Snapping
Signs of stress in cats
Cats can express their distress quite loudly and clearly in the presence of other animals, especially if they feel threatened. Here are some obvious signs to look out –
- Arched back
- Piloerection (raised fur along the spine)
- Crouched, defensive posture
- Dilated pupils
- Ears back or flattened
- Hissing
- A puffed-up or bristled tail position
- Swatting and clawing
- Hiding in a secluded area
- Peeing or defecating outside the litter box
- Marking behavior
- Loss of appetite
- Destructive behavior
- Excessive vocalization
Control and manage the situation in your house if you notice any signs of stress in your pets. Early intervention is recommended to prevent escalations and fights.
Is it normal for a cat to hiss at a new dog?
Hissing is a defensive response and is an indication of fear in your cat. It is natural for your cat to feel threatened and territorial around your new dog. It is a natural response to communicate fear and to establish distance. It is not a sign of aggression, but an attempt to avoid it. Cats hiss to avoid confrontation and prevent escalation of a situation. It is similar to growling in dogs.
If you find your cat hissing at your dog, make sure to provide your cat with some personal space and distance from your dog. This is important for your cat to calm down and destress after a stressful episode. In several cases, dogs end up getting the hint and back off on their own without any intervention. However, if your cat keeps hissing at your dog repeatedly throughout the day, human intervention would be recommended to set crystal clear boundaries for both pets.
What should you not do when introducing a cat to a dog?
1. Expecting them to figure it out on their own
In the case of some pets with experience with other pets and possessing calmer personalities, you may notice that they may be able to understand and respond to animal body language cues effectively and respect boundaries. However, it may often happen that your dog and/or your cat may fail to understand these cues and invade the personal space of the other.
How we handle the situation during such times is a major influencer on the kind of relationship we end up having with our pets and whether or not they will trust us. When our pets get into constant fights in our presence, our perception as a leader is compromised if we are unable to help them repeatedly. Frequent break out of fights is a sign that your pets need to be trained to respect each other’s boundaries and read body language cues better, the onus of which is entirely on you.
2. Allowing your dog to chase or play rough with the cat
The sight of a dog chasing a cat around the house may be funny for some, but it certainly may not be funny for your cat; especially if they have no intention of play in mind. Chasing could go either ways – while some pets may develop a more positive relationship through chasing games, some may end up drifting apart.
The best way to figure this out would be to actively catch hold of your dog while he is chasing your cat and stop the game immediately. Wait to see your cat’s reaction to it. If your cat prefers to maintain distance and does not come back to your dog to initiate play, it is best to discourage chasing. However, when the game stops, if your cat comes back to your dog to re-initiate the game, it is okay to let them continue.
Roughhousing is not a recommended activity between dogs and cats. Cats have a delicate body structure. Even though they may have 9 lives, they are prone to injury when engaging in roughhousing games.
3. Failing to accommodate your pets’ personalities
Each pet has individual needs, preferences and personality types. Consider your dog and your cat’s age, personality, and history before trying to get them to get along with each other. Some dogs may have a strong prey drive, while certain cats may be more tolerant of dogs.
Your pets will communicate the pace at which they are comfortable taking the interaction forward. Make sure to respect it and allow them ample time to accept each other.
In Conclusion
Patience is key when learning how to introduce a dog and a cat. Remember to take the process slowly, monitor their interactions, and be prepared to make adjustments based on their comfort levels and behaviors. If you’re unsure of the introduction process or if there are signs of ongoing stress or aggression, seek guidance from a professional dog trainer or behaviorist.